refactor: make hosts declarative and consolidate shared config

- add my.username / my.gaming.enable / my.ai.local.enable options and
  gate optional app modules on them instead of per-host import lists
- move vendor-neutral hardware.graphics into modules/graphical, leaving
  only NVIDIA-specific drivers and env vars in modules/hardware/nvidia
- derive the primary user everywhere from my.username (users, getty,
  home-manager, tmpfiles)
- de-duplicate Hyprland autostart down to a single system loginShellInit
  using the start-hyprland wrapper
- consolidate all nixpkgs overlays into modules/core/nix.nix and use
  final.stdenv.hostPlatform.system
- make the zsh rebuild helper target $(hostname) instead of hardcoded hades
- add nixpkgs follows for nixos-hardware, pi and comfy-ui (single nixpkgs)
- add .gitignore and a nixfmt flake formatter; format all nix files
- remove empty browser.nix/display-configuration.nix and rename
  local_ai.nix -> local-ai.nix
- document the my.* toggles in the README

modules/core/default.nix

@@ -1,9 +1,10 @@
 { ... }:
 
 {
-    imports = [
-        ./system.nix
-        ./users.nix
-        ./nix.nix
-    ];
+  imports = [
+    ../options.nix
+    ./system.nix
+    ./users.nix
+    ./nix.nix
+  ];
 }